New small pet: the first week routine that builds trust fast

Quick answer

For the first 48 hours, do less: quiet room, stable food and water, and minimal handling. Then build trust with predictable routines, gentle voice, and treat-based interaction.

Before day 1 (this matters more than handling)

• Enclosure fully set up (bedding, hides, water, food, enrichment)
• A quiet location (no loud TV, no constant traffic)
• A simple feeding plan you can repeat daily

Day-by-day plan

Day 1: let them arrive

• Place them in the enclosure and step back
• Offer food and water, then keep it calm
• Watch quietly: are they exploring, eating, drinking?

Days 2 to 3: observe and stabilize

• Keep handling minimal
• Start gentle voice association: talk softly near the enclosure
• Spot-clean only (avoid deep cleaning)

Days 4 to 7: begin trust-building

• Offer treats at the enclosure opening
• Use a flat hand, still and low
• Keep sessions short (2 to 5 minutes), end on a calm moment

Signs of stress (slow down if you see these)

• Freezing for long periods
• Hiding constantly with no exploring
• Rapid breathing, frantic running
• Refusing food for longer than expected

If a pet stops eating, seems lethargic, or looks unwell, contact an exotics vet.

The “no-regret” rule for bonding

Let them choose interaction. You want “approach and explore,” not “grab and panic.”

FAQ

When can I start holding them?

Usually after a few days, once they are eating and exploring normally. Start with short, calm sessions.

Should I clean the whole enclosure in week one?

No. Deep cleaning too soon removes their scent and can increase stress. Spot-clean first.

What if they hide all day?

That can be normal at first. Ensure they have hides, the room is calm, and you’re not waking them up for interaction.

Next step

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